In this blog I like to
talk about coming up with new ways to employ the gifts God’s given you for the
purpose of reaching people in ways that aren’t already been done. Here’s an
example.
These days it’s
becoming more common to open satellite churches. Usually what that means is
that there’s a main campus where the preacher physically delivers a sermon, and
it’s broadcast live (or on a delay) to other satellite churches in the network.
Those remote churches normally have an on-site staff, including a pastor (who
is not delivering a sermon, but is there to support the members of the
congregation), worship leaders, and all the volunteers that are needed to pull
off a functioning church service.
Gateway Church in Texas
recently announced that it was opening a new satellite campus. On the surface,
this isn’t anything unusual, but this particular venue is more difficult for
average folks to get to.
Gateway Church’s new
remote site is in the state’s largest maximum security prison.
They’ve hired someone
to be the campus pastor for this particular location, and there are others who
help every week, but just about everyone else who works to ensure the services
function is an inmate. Ushers, greeters, guys setting up, guys tearing down,
worship leaders, audio/video staff…all inmates.
The ways people are currently
reaching the lost are not the only ways to do it. There are tons of other ways
to do it that haven’t been started, but either nobody’s thought of it yet, or
nobody’s willing to do it. When it comes to reaching people for Christ, you
might be the only person on this entire planet that has the ideas you do. Don’t
let those ideas die on the vine.
You have talent; you
have ideas; you have value. For the sake of Christ’s kingdom and the people who
aren’t yet in it, please share those things with others.
I can’t even tell you
how many people I’ve heard complain about this past week’s Super Bowl. The
lowest-scoring Super Bowl ever…boring to watch…least exciting game in the
history of the championship.
Let’s say all of that’s true. Let’s say it was a drag to watch. Does any of that change the outcome for even one second? Tom Brady has now won over 10% of all the Super Bowls that have ever been played. Coach Bill Belichick, with eight rings and 12 Super Bowl appearances (even though they were with two different teams and they weren’t all as head coach), has been to over 22% of the Super Bowls to date. (This past Monday I heard one Patriots fan say that Sunday’s Super Bowl was the sixth best game ever!)
People who complain about how dull the game was fail to
appreciate what actually happened.
Let’s pretend you’re on one of the two teams who played in the big game, and
let’s go back in time two weeks. You’ve won your conference championship game
and you know who your opponent is going to be. You can now study up on their
strengths/weaknesses and start assembling a strategy to overcome them by
playing to your strengths.
Both teams have
high-powered offenses. In order to have a chance to win, you need to figure out
a way to shut down your opponent’s scoring ability while exploiting the
weaknesses in their defenses to maximize your own scoring opportunities.
The fact that this was the lowest-scoring Super Bowl ever
(where both teams combined only scored a single touchdown and three field goals)
is a testament to the preparation, planning, and skill of both teams’ defenses. The casual observer doesn’t really appreciate that
fact though; all they see is a low-scoring game that drags on. Neither team’s
defensive efforts get much attention or recognition in the replays.
The cameras didn’t show
it very much, but it’s important to realize that the whole time a team’s
offense was on the field, the coaches, coordinators, and other staff were
helping the defense prepare for the next time they took the field. Not exciting
stuff for a spectator, but crucial if you want to win the game. I’m sure the
last thing those personnel were concerned about was whether the game was
exciting to watch on TV.
The Christian life is
often like that. The glamorous jobs are the ones that get the attention, but
things wouldn’t succeed without all the behind-the-scenes work. Every
Christ-follower has been given spiritual gifts. Each person has a different
combination of them. Some of them are high-profile. It’s the pastor, teacher,
or leader that you see in positions of authority or taking charge. You might be
surprised at the difference made by the ones you don’t see. Not only are there
people that serve in places like church services or the kids’ program (do you
have any idea how aggravating it can be to teach a Sunday School class to a
bunch of 4th-grade boys?), but there are people that use their gifts outside of
the church building as well. These people might arrange meals for someone in
need, drive an elderly neighbor somewhere they need to go, anonymously deliver
some cash when it’s needed most, or any good deed that goes unnoticed or
unrewarded.
These are the people
that make life work for those with a need. Everyone can make a difference, but
these silent servants almost never get recognized.
If you’re one of these
people…thank you. A lot of what you do goes unnoticed, so thank you.
You received spiritual
gifts when you became a believer. I don’t know which ones they are, but I know
you have them. You might wish you had a different set of them. Don’t think of
it that way. The ones you have are there for a reason. I encourage you…get
out there and use them. The world is waiting for you to use them in your own
unique way.
Rumor has it there’s a pretty big football game coming up this weekend. With that in mind, I’m going to rely on a “guest contributor” for today’s post. (I’m really just stealing from his website.) Tony Evans writes:
In a football game, the players tower over the referees. The
players are bigger, stronger and more powerful than the older, smaller
and, often, out-of- shape referees. In a game, the players can use their
power to knock you down, but the referees can use their authority to put you
out of the game.
Never confuse power with
authority.
Satan may be able to knock you down. He has more power than you.
But he has absolutely no authority over you if you’re a believer. Of
course, Satan knows that, but he doesn’t want you to know it. So, Satan
tries to intimidate with lies and pressure and to deceive you into believing
he has authority over you.
On the cross, Jesus Christ deactivated, dismantled and disarmed
Satan’s rule over sin and death (Colossians 2:13-15). God gave the
ultimate authority to His Son. He has placed all things in subjection to
Jesus.
One of the reasons we often don’t live in light of this truth is
because we confuse the terms “power” and “authority.” Satan still has
power. He still dominates the world in which we live and influences
people’s lives in countless ways. His tactics are both real and destructive.
But what he doesn’t have is final authority. Jesus has the authority.
Jesus is exalted “far above all rule and authority and power and dominion”
(Ephesians 1:21).
Satan has no authority or power over the one who is aligned
under the covering of the risen and exalted Christ. This is why Satan will
try long and hard to hinder the one who has an abiding relationship with
Jesus. He knows if he can get you to ignore the authority and rule of Christ
in your day-to- day activities and decisions, he can deceive, trick and
harm you however he chooses. Yet acknowledging and remaining under Christ’s
lordship and authority will protect you from Satan’s onslaught.
God “made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been
saved), and raised us up with Him, and seated us with Him in the heavenly
places in Christ Jesus” (Ephesians 2:5-6).
When Christ died, you died with him. When Christ arose, you
arose with Him. When Christ sat down at the right hand of the Father, you
sat down with Him. In other words, you were made to function in concert
and cadence with Christ. For you to gain access to the authority which
comes through the perfect union of Jesus Christ—bringing heaven to bear on
earth—you must abide in Him. To abide means to dwell, to align your
thoughts, choices and perspective under God’s thoughts, choices and
perspective. It means connecting with Him and honoring Him in everything
you do. God doesn’t want weekend visits with His kids; He wants full custody.
This is such an important part of the victorious Christian life.
You can go to all of the church services you want, read all the spiritual
books you want, even do all the Bible studies that you want, but
experiencing all God has planned for you comes only through aligning yourself
under and abiding in the one who reigns over all, the exalted Lord Jesus
Christ.
I hope you’ve either
enjoyed or gotten something out of the things that show up on DareGreatlyNow. Now
that I’ve posted over 30 entries on the website, it makes a little more sense
to explain a bit about it and how the site is laid out.
On and off over the
years I’ve had flashes of an idea that is currently embodied in this website.
At first I thought about doing a book, then it morphed into some type of
devotional, and then it showed up here. The short version is that I’ve seen and
done an unusual combination of things over my life so far, or gained unique
insights as a result of doing the things I’ve done. Many of the stories I
relate in the pages of this website are stories that ought to have become faint
memories, but for some reason they haven’t yet faded away. In writing so far,
those memories have come to the forefront and I’ve been able to tie a godly or
spiritual application to them.
Sometimes in life
you’ll encounter unusual circumstances that don’t make much sense until you’re
looking back at them in hindsight. Before you get to that retrospective moment
it can just seem like a disjointed collection of random experiences, but then
something happens to bring it all together.
This is how God works.
Not only does He weave your life’s experiences into a plan (or even a
masterpiece) for His purposes, He also weaves together the experiences of your
life with those of other people’s lives.
Have you ever felt like
you were meant for more than just the life you’re living? When you felt that
way, you probably were meant for more! You might even be
feeling that way right now. Even though the stories on this site jump around
all over the place, the central theme to which they all point is the idea that
God didn’t intend for you to live a life of mediocrity.
If you’re willing, you can accept the invitation, the
challenge, that God has extended to you. You can be a mighty warrior for Jesus
Christ.
That concept can be
fulfilled through many different avenues. If you believe the Bible, you believe
that this world will get darker before it gets lighter. Yet the Bible says that
despite all of that, the Church is still God’s plan to reach the lost. We don’t
seek to conquer or subjugate anyone, or bludgeon them into converting to
Christianity. We’ve simply been commanded to share the news of Christ with
everyone. What they do with it is up to them.
The stories posted here
are meant to encourage…to inspire…to show that big and daring things are
not beyond your reach. Although it is not my aim, it may sometimes sound like
I’m petitioning to be the next spokesman for some kind of energy drink. 🙂 I’ve
written so far about experiences in the Air Force, having a house knocked out
from under me, lifeguarding experiences, going kayaking, flying down a steep
hill on a skateboard as a kid, rappelling out of trees or down cliffs,
adventures in parenting, and figuring out how to go see the Winter Olympics.
Some of the things I
expect to address in the future include more experiences in pursuit of survival
instructor status, medical emergencies, skydiving, an adventure sports trip to
Australia, kayaking over waterfalls, a few near-death experiences, some
kneeboarding, and of course more parenting stories.
These stories are all
meant to say that you can do things you think you can’t. Hopefully they’re done
in an entertaining way. I hope to encourage you to embrace the idea that God
has empowered you to go as far as you’d like with regard to accomplishing
things for His kingdom, and that the limits you impose on yourself or allow to
be imposed on you are not your actual limits. The only limits that exist are
the ones you allow to take hold.
If you haven’t already,
I’d love for you to subscribe, but in truth, I’d love even more for you to pass
individual entries on to people that you think would benefit from hearing them.
The Church today is in a strange place, where it needs to both keep reaching
people through traditional means while at the same time evolving to communicate
with people in new ways to convey the same truth. If you know someone who’s
thinking about moving out in support of one of these directions, by all means
please point them to this blog.
Now that the site has a
decent number of entries, I’ll explain the categories and tags. When you look
at an individual post, down at the bottom of every entry it has categories and
tags listed. For every post, I try to list it under two categories: one that
tells the type of activity it is, and one that tells the spiritual lesson it’s
geared toward. If you look at the site’s homepage, all the available categories
are listed. If you wanted to see all entries I’ve written that have something
to do with stories about my kids, for example, click on “Parenthood.”
Clicking on “God Can Use You More Than You Think He Can” will bring
up all the entries I’ve listed under that category.
Tags do more or less
the same thing, but through a different way and by naming different topics. The
more entries I post over time, the more useful tags and categories will become
if you’re seeking a specific post.
So you tell me…what
do you like about the site so far? What do you dislike? Are the stories too
long? I post on Monday and Thursday mornings; is that too much? Not often
enough? How can I help get people off the sidelines and into the game? How can
I reach more people so they can be encouraged to live a life of higher impact?
How can I get Christians to believe that they have an unparalleled power living
inside them, waiting for them to unlock its potential?
Your comments are
welcome! If you don’t want to comment publicly where everyone can see it, email
me at tim@daregreatlynow.com.
When I was in college I majored in biology. It wasn’t pre-med biology though; the program was geared more for a career in wildlife management or forestry. As a result, I had a lot of courses that had interesting field trips. We radio-tracked deer, did forest surveys, went behind the scenes at a zoo, toured a fish hatchery, visited botanical gardens, and generally spent a lot of time in the fields of western New York during all parts of the school year.
One of our professors knew a guy that worked for the state’s Department of Environmental Quality (DEQ), which opened the door for us to do some neat stuff. As it turns out, a farmer probably an hour away had discovered a black bear hibernating in one of the big round hay bales in his field. The farmer invited the DEQ to come and survey the situation, which would add data to the organization’s knowledge of the bear population in the area. Our class got to go along and observe.
We arrived at the farm and waited a safe distance away while the DEQ folks tranquilized the bear. (When bears hibernate, they’re not in a solid, deep sleep the whole time; they wake up and move around on warm days, so they had to make sure it wasn’t going to do anything unexpected.) I’m not sure what method they used to do it, but after they stuck the bear, it got scared and took off running. It probably made it 100 yards before it stopped running and laid down. The farmer and DEQ folks then gently loaded it into the bucket of a tractor and brought it back to the area right in front of the den, where they weighed it, checked its teeth, determined its age, and collected some other information.
It’s a tricky thing to tranquilize something when you don’t know how much it weighs. If you use too little tranquilizer, the bear’s going to start moving sooner than you’d like, but if you use too much, you’ll have a hard time reviving the bear. Whoever was responsible for this part did a good job, but you’re never quite sure if the estimate is going to be good enough. As a precaution, they used a bandana to cover the bear’s eyes after they had laid it down on the ground. The thinking was that as the bear began regaining consciousness, it would stay a little more calm if it couldn’t see how close all these people were. Keeping it more calm would hopefully prevent it from trying to lash out without even having regained full control of its body, which could be harmful for both us and the bear.
It didn’t take very long for the DEQ folks to collect all the desired information, so after they finished they pretty much just needed to monitor the bear until the tranquilizer wore off. In the mean time they let people take pictures with the bear. After a bit, they shooed us all away because they didn’t know how much longer the drugs would last. We left to head back to school, and we found out later that as the last DEQ employees were getting ready to depart, the bear started growling. (If that’s not a “time to go!” signal, I’m not sure what is.)
Have you ever asked God to let you know what’s going to happen if you proceed in a certain direction, only to be met with increased murkiness? He might just do that on purpose. A lot of times it’s because we can’t handle knowing what’s on the other side. You don’t know what will happen if you obey, but if you did, you might not follow through with what you know you’re supposed to do. That might be because you believe the personal cost of the outcome will be too great, or it might be because you’d be overwhelmed with seeing just how far beyond you your actions will go and it just seems too daunting to begin. Either way, the result is the same: you’re not setting out on the calling God has laid before you. In many cases, we’re better off being kept “blindfolded,” like the bear, because too much information will actually be detrimental.
Instead try this. Think of your obedience to God’s calling in terms of chapters, rather than as a pamphlet. You need to find out what happens in one chapter before moving on to the next. By the end of the book, you’ll have the whole picture, but if you had started out knowing what happens in the end, some of the important stuff that happened in the middle would lose its significance or change the outcome.
It might feel as though you know what God’s prodding you to do, but it seems insignificant. Well, that might be true, but part of the reason for that is because you might just be starting a new book. You’re blindfolded right now, but don’t just lay there growling. Step out in obedience and faith; chapter two is waiting for you, but you can’t start it until you finish chapter one.
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Our youngest child is
at the stage where she still has bad dreams fairly often. She wakes up crying
during the night, and my wonderful wife usually goes running into her room to
try to settle her down before she wakes up anyone else in the house.
A few mornings ago my
daughter woke up crying. I was already awake, laying in bed, when I heard the
cry begin. I jumped out of bed before my wife started stirring, trying to
return the favor. I went into my daughter’s room and told her “Daddy’s
here now.” I brushed her hair out of her face, rubbed her shoulder, and
kissed her cheek. She calmed down and we prayed, but she wasn’t settled. I stayed
with her a little bit longer, and then went back to bed.
Laying there for a bit,
it wasn’t long before I heard her little feet came walking into our room. But she
didn’t come walking over to my side. She made a beeline right for Mommy. My
wife talked and cuddled with her a little bit, then brought her back to bed and
got her tucked and settled in, where she stayed for the rest of the night.
How many of us are like
that? Whether we like to admit it or not, there’s a God-shaped hole in all of
us. We’re restless until it’s filled. We try to fill the hole with different things…anything.
For some it can be destructive things; alcohol, drugs, relationships that
aren’t built to last, more serious types of crime, or even dark spiritual
things. Others try to fill it with things that might be good, but don’t quite quench
the thirst. Making more money, performing charity work, being very active in
community groups, donating your time/energy/resources to civic or political
causes you believe in, etc.
The problem is, those things are like Daddy trying to settle his daughter in for the night after a bad dream. They might serve as temporary solutions, but they don’t bring a peace that lasts.
To fill the God-shaped
hole in your life, only Christ will satisfy.
Starting your senior year of college is unlike the start of any other year of college. Last year’s seniors are all gone, and now YOU are part of the class that’s graduating next. It’s the last time you head back to start a new academic year. You’re either excited about the prospects of the coming year, or terrified of what comes after you graduate. For me, one of the highlights of the coming year, to be sure, was a road trip across the country with a buddy to go see the Winter Olympics in Salt Lake City. We originally hatched our scheme a year earlier, and now here we were only about five months away from actually doing it.
At the start of my Senior year, I had no early class on Tuesday/Thursdays. That Fall I didn’t have to be in class until 9:40ish in the morning. One Tuesday morning about two or three weeks into the year I walked into a class in the science building and grabbed a seat in the classroom. Something was off, though. Everybody just had kind of a different mood and the place was abuzz. It took me a minute to piece together what was going on.
They told me that two planes had crashed into the Twin Towers in New York City and the two buildings had collapsed.
At first I was just confused and didn’t believe them. What was this, some kind of a sick joke? I had been to those towers before. They were immense. How could two planes have crashed into two buildings right next to each other on the same day? I didn’t yet understand that it was commercial jets that had crashed into the towers, that it had been done on purpose, and that there was a coordinated effort between terrorists on four different aircraft that participated in that day’s events.
I don’t remember what the lesson was that day. I just remember trying to wrap my head around the idea that those two buildings were no longer there. We had family in Brooklyn, and ever since I was a kid we had frequently taken trips there and would sometimes go sightseeing in Manhattan, including trips to the World Trade Center. After all the trips we’d taken into New York City, I couldn’t imagine the NYC skyline without the World Trade Center.
With some family atop the World Trade Center, probably a year or two before 9/11/2001
I thought back to the last time I had been there. I couldn’t think of anyone I knew who worked in those buildings, but I remembered riding in the elevator for the long ride up to the observation deck. The last time I took that trip, there had been a guy at the elevator’s controls that talked to us a little bit during the ride, and then without missing a beat turned to a little boy and started speaking fluent Spanish to him about sight-seeing in the city. I later found out about others I knew who worked in this area of Manhattan, but that day this elevator operator was the only guy I could think of in the towers. I still have no idea if he was in the towers that day or what happened to him.
I don’t think it became real to me until after I saw news coverage and replays of an aircraft striking the second tower, the subsequent collapses, and the terrified people running through the streets. Back then nobody had ever heard about the Taliban. Hardly anyone knew where Afghanistan was. Nobody knew what was happening, but everyone’s lives changed that day. As the reality settled in over the next few days, I started to wonder if there would even BE an Olympics for us to attend.
It was scary stuff, for sure. There are going to be times in your life where everything stops and your reality gets turned upside down. You’ll be devastated and in shock. It might be the death of a loved one; financial hardships; a diagnosis you didn’t see coming; a natural disaster. You can see no good reason why God would allow things like this to happen. The only question you’ll keep coming back to is “why?” In all honesty, you might not find an answer to that question this side of Heaven.
Some of you have already had experiences like that; others of you may not have. September 11th was a national tragedy, and it was on everyone’s mind and for awhile it was all anyone thought or talked about. The only good thing about it was that we mourned together. As time marched on and the events of that day have faded into the past, new or more urgent struggles have taken priority. It’s important to remember though, that the people with whom you come in contact any given day may be attempting to cope with an immense personal struggle.
Back in 2001 we mourned as a nation, but every day there are people who honestly believe that they are all alone in whatever struggle they find themselves. Please consider that the next time you feel the urge to really let someone have a piece of your mind. Not only that, but please be on the lookout for people that are fighting just to make it through the day. You might be the only lifeline God throws to them.
Taking a break from the Olympic chapter for a bit, but don’t worry, we’ll circle back later! If you know someone that you think will be encouraged by these posts, please let them know about DareGreatlyNow. Those are the people I’m posting for!
My buddy Jeremy and I decided during our Junior year of college in western NY state that we wanted to go see some of the upcoming Winter Olympics in Salt Lake City (SLC) during our Senior year. We didn’t know how we’d get there, where we’d sleep, or what we’d see, but we were going to figure out a way to make it happen.
Initially we brainstormed some crazy ideas just to see what kind of options were available to us. We looked into hostels, renting a camper, driving to a slew of different airports to fly out from there, all kinds of stuff. College was expensive; we didn’t have a whole lot in the way of money, so whatever we were going to do needed to be on the cheap. Looking at hotels in/near SLC during the block of time we were looking at was a joke; everything was either already booked or way too expensive. Over time it became obvious that if we were serious about this, we weren’t going to have a building to sleep in, and that meant we would have to be prepared to sleep outdoors.
There was plenty of public land near Salt Lake City, but for a lot of it you had to head up to higher elevations in the mountains. As you might expect, it turns out that it’s snowy and cold in the Rocky Mountains in February. The amount of snow in the mountains was large enough that you wouldn’t want to just walk into the forest with a backpack; you needed to have either snowshoes or cross-country skis. Since we were both familiar with cross-country skiing, we opted to go that route. Now we were looking at bringing skis, backpacks, multiple sleeping bags each, a tent, cooking equipment, and a good amount of warm, bulky clothes. The sheer amount of stuff we needed to bring meant flights were out.
Right, so we’re going to drive over 2,000 miles across the country with all this gear. What vehicle are we taking? Jeremy had a pickup truck, but without having a cap it was impossible to secure all the stuff we were bringing along. We had to keep it all safe while we were attending events, because we were going to depend on it when we needed it. I had a little hatchback, and we could probably squeeze everything inside, but we couldn’t really sleep inside it overnight while all of our stuff was inside. We needed a different vehicle.
We were willing to rent something, but what? Lots of rental places didn’t want to rent cars to people under 25, so we were even more limited in our choices. I wrote a few letters to the marketing department of a few different car manufacturers, telling them what we wanted to do. I figured it would be a cheap way for them to make a commercial to help demonstrate a given model’s versatility as far as gas mileage/dependability, roominess, and ability to handle winter weather. Either nobody was convinced or I wrote to them too late, because we never heard anything back from anyone. (Still a lost opportunity for them, in my mind!)
Jeremy found a place in one of the cities not far off our route that was willing to rent to younger drivers. We could leave our home base, drive to that city and swap cars, and then make the rest of the trip from there. On the way back we’d stop there again to switch out, then finish the last leg in the original vehicle. Whatever we ended up renting would need to be decent on gas mileage, able to handle a long trip, handle acceptably in the snow, and be roomy enough for us to stow all our gear and still have both of us sleep inside.
Our plan started taking shape. After we settled on the main concept, we just had to fill in the details. We looked into ticket sales and figured out which events we wanted to see. We found a bundle package of different events we’d like to see that were priced within our budget, so the timing of those events largely drove the dates we planned around. It turns out that even though we’d have to miss some class, there was a mini-break in the school calendar for a portion of the time we’d be gone. That would help minimize the catch-up work we would have to do.
The school I attended had a pretty robust program for outdoor life. I majored in Biology, but my minor was in Outdoor Recreation. The classes in that program many times cultivated leadership skills for guiding others through outdoor challenges, and taught many of the technical skills that went along with those situations. As a result, the school had a sort of “camp closet” where a lot of equipment was available to rent cheap. Since Jeremy and I knew the student in charge of renting out the equipment, and he thought what we were doing was pretty cool, we could procure a lot of our needs for a small price. Through him we obtained sleeping bags, backpacks, a cook stove and fuel, cookware, and a bunch of little odds and ends.
As the pieces started falling into place, we got excited. “Yes! We can do this!” The whole time, we had been trying to figure out if something this crazy was even possible. When it started looking like we could make it work, the magnitude of what we were thinking about doing hit us. “Whoa, are we really going to do this?”
Of course we were. This was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. I know I personally got the jitters every now and then, though. Up until that point, the only time I slept in a tent was in the backyard of someone in my neighborhood as a kid. Now I had to come to terms with the idea that I was going to drive across the country to sleep in the snow for a few nights, and not actually sleep inside a building for a week or so.
God’s kinda funny sometimes. He’ll plant something in your mind that, try as you might, you can’t shake loose. It starts with an idea, and it’s not even fully formed. After you stop trying to ignore it, you turn it over and over in your mind, trying to figure out different aspects to it or new ways to look at it. Sometimes you get paired up with a partner on an idea, and the two of you complement one another and spur each other on. You look at this huge idea you’re having, and you start breaking it down into more manageable chunks. Looking closer, you just might find that your circumstances dictate your options, which lays out the path for you.
Before you know it, the only thing stopping you from doing something so bold, so brash, so unconventional…is you.
In college I had different types of friends. Throw a bunch of high-school graduates together for four years and you’re going to find all kinds of people. I had friends I ate meals with, friends I exercised with, friends I studied or worked on projects with. Some friends I spent my free time with. There were friends I only saw infrequently, others that were “situational friends” for the duration of a class and then I never saw them again. Some people might be great friends, but would be horrible roommates. Some people were friends of friends.
With all the different kinds of friends out there, what kind of friend do you link up with if you want to do something audacious?
During my Junior year in college my friend Jeremy and I decided we wanted to somehow get from Western New York to Salt Lake City to attend part of the 2002 Winter Olympics. Out of all the people I knew at school, Jeremy was the only person I’d be comfortable attempting something like that with. There were other people at school that were perfectly capable of taking on such an adventure, but I hadn’t built the same level of trust with anyone else.
In my very first college class, Jeremy was a classmate. What started as a shared experience suffering through an 8 am history class neither of us cared about ended up as a mutually beneficial friendship. He taught me to shoot, and I taught him how to rappel. He showed me how to skin a deer, and I showed him how to cross-country ski. His instinct was to push forward or be more aggressive in pretty much whatever task he was involved. In the same situation, my instinct was to hold back and consider the effects of my actions. Our personalities meshed in such a way that regardless of our instincts, he’d give me the push I needed when it was time to get something done, and I’d give him pause during times when restraint was best.
Mom, if you’re reading,
skip the next paragraph.
We did (or almost did) all kinds of bonehead stuff in school, but all of it ultimately built the trust we had in each other. One winter night when we were bored, we decided to do something dumb under the guise of “testing winter gear” for our upcoming trip. After dark, I put on some of my warmest headgear and ski goggles, and got in the back of his pickup truck. As he drove down a long, straight stretch of road, I may or may not have stood up in the back of his truck as he substantially exceeded the posted speed limit so I could see how the gear would stand up to the wind. (Don’t try this.) (The gear worked great.)
It’s a dumb story about my youthful indiscretions (one where my instinct of holding back did not win), but it helps show that level of trust. When one of us half-jokingly brought up the idea of traveling across the country to a place neither of us had been so that we could spend a week without heat while attending Olympic events, neither of us laughed. It was one of those occasions where we just kind of sat there silently for a moment and then looked each other in the eye as if to say “I’m up for it.”
You’ve probably had big, bold, brash ideas before. Big ideas are not to be shied away from, but you’ll probably need some help to tackle them. For the ideas that are merely “big,” you probably have a handful of people that you can think of that you’d be willing to partner with in order to try to make them happen. What I want you to focus on is your idea that is so immense, so enormous, so egregiously large or crazy that you can only think of one or two people that you’d be willing to even mention it to. This is the idea that you’re too scared to tell anyone about, and you have to pick and choose who you let in on it. The people with which you’re willing to share your idea are special people. You’ve developed a level of trust with them that even though you might not feel comfortable bringing it up, you’re not afraid that they’re going to make you feel like you’re a fool for having dared to dream so big.
This is a blog about encouraging Christians to live up to their full potential in Christ. For that, I make no apologies. I also recognize, however, that a lot of what I write on this site has parallels with the world of innovation. To both types of readers, I say: Live up to the full potential of your God-given gifts! If there’s an idea that’s been tugging at you and it won’t go away, giving it a try might be your best shot at getting it to leave you alone (unless it involves criminal activity, that is). Maybe Walt Disney can offer some additional inspiration. He once said “All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.”
Don’t choke those big ideas. Stoke them. Know that if you want to get them off the ground, you’re going to need some help. If you know who it is that you’re going to need to talk to about it, set up an opportunity to bounce it off them. Sometimes there’s only one person that can help you make it happen, and until they’re on board with you, your idea is going nowhere.
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Ever since I was a kid, I’ve thought that the Olympics were fun to watch. The idea that you’re seeing someone who, at least for the moment, is the best in the world in their sport…the gold medals, the national anthems and flags being raised…it was so straightforward and patriotic. At the beginning of my Junior year of college, the Summer Olympics took place in Sydney, Australia. Because it was a southern hemisphere location, the games started later than normal, and I was able to watch it with friends at school rather than at home during the summer break.
You can only watch so many Olympic events in a row before it gets old, but I kept tabs on what was going on all throughout the games. For the big stuff, I’d be watching with other people in a lounge somewhere.
A buddy of mine, Jeremy, was also keeping up with the games that year. One time as we were watching we got to talking, and I’m not sure exactly how it happened, but one of us said to the other something like “You know, the next Winter Olympics are gonna be in Utah when we’re seniors.”
That’s pretty much all it took. We were in. Somehow, we were going to figure out how to go to Utah to see some of the 2002 Winter Olympics in person.
We were students at a college in western New York state. Utah wasn’t close, but at least it was in our country. We didn’t know how we’d get there, how we’d get back, where we’d sleep, or how close the venues were to each other. All we knew was that we had a big and bold idea, and we were willing to make some sacrifices in order to make it happen. We had about 17 months to figure it out.
One thing that’s neat about this life is that God has given us free will. We can choose to follow Him or not. Beyond that, He gives us the ability to choose how we would like to glorify Him. If you’re a Christian, you may notice that some causes tug at your heart strings a little more than others. It may be a heart for helping the homeless, orphans, alcoholics, those in prison, someone that doesn’t have clean water or someone you personally know that can’t afford enough food or medicine. Your combination of talents, interests, and spiritual gifts does not often match up with other people’s, and that’s by design. You are uniquely equipped and motivated to tackle challenges that are tailor-made for you. If you feel as though you’re compelled to plug into a certain area, most likely it’s because you are.
At some point in your Christian walk, you probably had an idea about some challenge you were supposed to take on. Maybe it was big and bold, maybe it was something a little easier to sink your teeth into. Like our Olympic idea, sometimes you just need to let the idea bake for awhile before moving out. Don’t let it die in the “still baking” phase, though.
Jeremy and I did go to the Olympics as spectators. I’ll give plenty more information in later posts, but I’ll tell you this much: it’s been almost 17 years since we took that trip…there are things I was willing to do in 2002 that I’m probably not willing to do now. That’s not necessarily good or bad, it’s just different. That helps illustrate another point: no matter how old you are, you’ve got an advantage when presented with a big and bold challenge. When you’re young, you probably have limited financial means, but your enthusiasm can carry you through many discomforts that you may not be willing to endure when you get older. A couple of decades later, you likely have a more solid financial footing and the benefit of some life experience, but there are many priorities competing for your time and you have to be dedicated to a prayer life and devotional life or they’re simply not going to happen. Further along, in the early years of your retirement you may or may not be as busy as during your working years, but you probably have the benefit of having less structure in the way you spend your time. Later in life you may not be able to get out and perform physical tasks as easily, but your prayer life and mentorship roles have the potential to be the best they’ve ever been.
The point I’m making is that when God plants an idea in your head that seems like it might be a little too big for you to handle, focus on the ways He’s equipped you to succeed. Instead of turning it down, let it stew for a little bit. It’s supposed to be intimidating. If He gave you an easy assignment, how would He get any glory out of it? On the other hand, if someone is woefully unprepared to take on a mammoth undertaking, and a million things have to line up in order for it to happen, it becomes obvious that the project’s eventual success didn’t come because of the person; God gets the glory in those cases. If it’s God handing you the next assignment, be willing to bite off more than you can chew.
